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There are two layers to life, work and love. One is above the surface and one is below. Above the surface is how you look, how you feel, how you act, how you manifest your life in hard goods and tangible reality. It is important.

Below the surface there is another world. It is a world of sensations, emotions, moods and connections. No one sees this world. Your “above the surface” world is all people see. To detect what is below the surface, we must use our intuition. This intuition is possessed by everyone but understood by few, and trusted by even fewer.

The world above causes the world below. Many people confuse this. The spiritual seeker might say that if I meditate, I will achieve a good life. But this is false reality. If we live a good life, we will meditate. The above causes the below. “As above, So below” (more…)

Why are you single? From the age of 14, being single is unnatural. From that age, nature want us, in some form or other, to share our life with a significant other. Be it the boy around the corner or the girl of your dreams, being double is normal, being single takes an effort.

Nature does not define relationships, we do. We load them with our own brand of “should” and in doing so bring the whole of our being forward into the moment of love. We are not always living in accordance with nature, we normally live in accordance with the laws and rules, values and beliefs that we have accumulated.

Now we can understand why some people are single and some people are not. It has nothing to do with nature. If nature (call this God) had her way, we’d all be with our partners and living according to her laws, at the border of chaos and order. (more…)

The first step to finding and keeping love – stillness. When we declare our love for someone, we really mean, I am at peace with you. At peace means I lack any emotional negativity and therefore, I let down my guard.

When we let down our guard to another person, it means we are at peace with them. There is no need for defense or protection against them. We can call it trust, but it goes beyond that. In love means, this person as entered your being, beyond the guardians that exist in your mind, deep into the recesses of your being.

If we had no fear, we could fall in love with many people easily. But we do have fear and so, we cannot fall in love easily. So the science of falling in love comes from the science of overcoming fear. (more…)

All Love is Sacred. Romance your beloved. Live this day as if it will be your last together. Remember tomorrow never comes. Forget yesterday’s challenges. Be innocent, get off your high horse. Ignore all your worries about tomorrow. This is it. Your own opportunity to change the world you live in. Give it all you have. Make it the best day of your year. Make every day a Valentine’s day. The saddest words you can ever hear are, “I wish I had my time over again … I’d do it different”, regret. The stupidest people have “do it tomorrow” on their calendar. Act like your beloved is the most precious diamond, and if you don’t act now, they’ll evaporate (which is truth). Run with it! Today! Now. Don’t be a mourner get out and love. (more…)